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Home » A Giveaway for You! #becauseimalady Promotion at Talbots…

A Giveaway for You! #becauseimalady Promotion at Talbots…

OCtober 26, 2017

Another promoted post. Talbots gave me some stuff, and some things for you too!

Talbots was always the “go to” store for ladylike clothes… I remember when Belovedest and I moved back from Ireland, and I was wearing the smallest clothing size I’ve worn since high school, and I really NEEDED a “kick butt and take names” suit – I went to Talbots. When I worked in an office, the family gift cards were ALWAYS for Talbots…

I have to admit, though, that I’ve always had reservations about the term “lady.” I always felt that it meant older, and more retiring, and genteel in a way that might mean being a doormat. The idea of manners and good breeding and appropriate conduct appealed, though… I was conflicted.

Which is why I’m happy to embrace Talbots’ current efforts to reclaim the term “lady,” on our terms. Or, as they put it: “being a “lady” is defining it for yourself and being unapologetically you – real, confident, fun, and imperfectly enchanting.”

So how does this involve us all? First, Talbots gave me some more clothes! Let’s look at what tempted…

Obviously – I’m always interested in something black and white, or black and grey. Snuggly, sweatery, and long-sleeved are ALL in the rotation now that the temperature dropped a solid 30 degrees in the last few days!

cardigan – Talbots; half-zip sweater – Talbots; dotted tee – Talbots

I’ve been mad about cables since I was a little girl – and some of these colors are pretty appealing! The tweedy cabled sweater sort of has my name written on it, too. And I was pleased to note that the cardigan that I bought before I went to Paris is still catching my eye as I scroll through the Internet…

sweaters – Talbots; black tweed sweater – Talbots; cardigan – Talbots

I briefly flirted with the idea of a marled, tweedy dress… And BOTH of these floral sweaters keep attracting my attention; I’m going to have to be alert to this sudden (and somewhat out of character) interest in florals!

dress – Talbots; grey flowered sweater – Talbots; black flowered sweater – Talbots

But #becauseimalady, I know enough to take the advice of my friends! When I reviewed what I packed for Paris, quite a few of you noted that I seem to have a pretty serious affection for the black and white marled garments that I own. So when I saw these 2 pieces, and I remember what you all had said, I knew that I had winners!

sleeveless shell – Talbots; cardigan – Talbots

I can already see these coming together in an easy 6-Pack wardrobe for a long weekend… I just need to find my destination!

cardigan – Talbots; black tee – L.L.Bean; cream tee – Lands’ End; sleeveless shell – Talbots; velvet cropped pants – Uniqlo; black ponte skirt – J.Jill

Also #becauseimalady, I keep my word about keeping my “active” wardrobe streamlined! So this is what I’m currently wearing. My sleeveless dress has ceded its position for a striped dress from L.L.Bean that I particularly love…

striped tee – Muji; cream tee – Lands’ End; black tee – L.L.Bean; dotted shirt – Lands’ End; gingham shirt – Lands’ End (similar here); birdseye sweater – & Other Stores, black crewneck cashmere sweater – L.L.Bean; black cashmere cardigan – Lands’ End; chambray shirt – J. Crew; black ponte skirt – J.Jill; jeans – Dearborn Denim; pants – Eddie Bauer; striped dress – L.L.Bean 

The “stardigan” is back! And my short-sleeved tee shirt and jumper dress have made way for my new sweaters…

 velvet sweatshirt – & Other Stories; cardigan – Talbots; tweed sweater – J. Jill; lace top – Talbots; velvet tunic – Eileen Fisher; star cardigan – Maison Rika; ruffled shirt – Lands’ End; cardigan – Talbots; sleeveless shell – Talbots; velvet cropped pants – Uniqlo; plaid skirt – J.Jill; dress – Eileen Fisher; tweed dress – COS

This is the full current wardrobe – more than enough for anything that life throws at me!

But here’s where the really good fun starts!

Leave me a comment – use the “hashtag” #becauseimalady – and tell me what being a lady means to you… (Talbots wants us to use the hashtag, so I’m complying – anybody who gives us gift cards gets to make at least ONE request, eh?)

And next Monday, at 4 pm Chicago time, I’m going to randomly choose THREE commenters to receive a $100 Talbots gift card! Yes, I have 3 of these… Your odds of winning are very good!

So let me start:

#becauseimalady, I know the difference between pants and leggings!

love,
Janice

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Comments

  1. Patricia says

    October 26, 2017 at 8:35 am

    #becauseimalady I buy quality over quantity and wear garments I love for years

    Reply
  2. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 8:53 am

    #becauseimalady I do not ridicule or condemn fashion choices of others but instead try to be the change I want to see around me. I don't think that having an attractive style is going to help much if you are a mean and judgemental person…

    Sara K.

    Reply
  3. Lynne SB says

    October 26, 2017 at 9:05 am

    #becauseimalady – being kind is always fashionable

    Reply
  4. Beccah says

    October 26, 2017 at 9:31 am

    #becauseimalady I know the difference between “it fits” and “I can fit into it” ( with s struggle, crisco and fishing line)

    Reply
    • Trisha says

      October 26, 2017 at 12:44 pm

      Good one!

      Reply
  5. The Bride says

    October 26, 2017 at 9:45 am

    #becauseimalady I say 'Please' and 'Thank-you.' Thanks, Janice, for letting us into your closet. Thanks, Talbots, for this opportunity and also for years of keeping me appropriately and happily clothed.

    I have great affection for Talbots – when I used to work in an office, I wore Talbots blazers nearly every single day. I had them in every available color – in wool for winter and linen for summer. And I had a great many Talbots dresses and skirts that I wore with them. I thought of them as my version of my male colleague's suits – my uniform. But never was a uniform so varied and colorful.

    Reply
  6. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 9:52 am

    #becauseimalady I finally realized that would looks good on me is so personal and distinctive. Trends, and what others wear can influence me, but only I know what really works for me!

    Reply
  7. Pat George says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:05 am

    #becauseImalady I listen to my mom, but buy what's right for me

    Reply
  8. Unknown says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:10 am

    #becauseimalady Talbots has been a favorite of mine for at least a decade. Great style, consistent fits, reliable quality. I love that I have pieces that are 5+ years old that still look great and work with current pieces! They mix traditional with stylish in a perfect blend. As do you, Janice!

    Reply
  9. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:13 am

    #because I'm a lady, I try to dress appropriately. Sustainability is coming to the forefront of my clothes consciousness. Janice has given us the tools to be intelligent consumers.
    Karen

    Reply
  10. Beffyann says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:22 am

    #becauseimalady I buy less but better :) and I wear it til it falls apart.

    Reply
  11. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:29 am

    #becauseI'malady, I buy only the clothes that make me feel happy and fit well, and appreciate my body for what it can do. Focus on the positive and keep moving forward. Thanks, Janice and Talbots for this chance. Sue

    Reply
  12. Tricia says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:34 am

    #becauseImalady I don't go past the mailbox without lipstick. (I also shop almost exclusively at Talbots!)

    Reply
  13. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:50 am

    #becauseimalady I always try to dress my best (neat, clean, appropriately) for others, but mostly for myself!

    Reply
  14. Cheryl R. Peeples says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:52 am

    #becauseimalady, I only wear what makes me happy.

    Reply
  15. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:57 am

    #becauseImalady I look first at the color and fit of the clothes I am considering, and stay away from the garbage clothes that some stores offer. I do look at price, but I splurge when I find something great. I'm worth it! Megan

    Reply
  16. Nicole L. says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:59 am

    #becauseimalady I try to wear clothes in natural fabrics that won't sprout holes in three years and generally buy secondhand – don't want to contribute quite as much to the landfill.

    Reply
    • Nicole L. says

      October 26, 2017 at 11:00 am

      *three wears.

      Reply
  17. CharVee says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:00 am

    #becauseiamalady I know beach attire is not office attire!

    Reply
  18. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:04 am

    #becauseimalady, I take care of myself, and part of that means dressing my body well no matter what size I am. Having lost 120 pounds, shopping is more challenging due to some sagging parts, but I keep looking until I find something I love. Terry

    Reply
  19. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:18 am

    #becauseimalady, I try to find age-appropriate, but not dowdy or too-youthful clothing. I've been retired almost 10 years, but still wear some of my beloved Talbots items that I wore to the office in every season. I still shop Talbots for my "retirement" wardrobe.

    Thank you for this wonderful chance to participate!

    NancyO.

    Reply
    • Nancy/n.o.e says

      October 27, 2017 at 3:33 am

      hi from another nancyo!

      Reply
  20. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:27 am

    #becauseimalady, I walk with strength and dignity, and I am able to smile at the future.

    Reply
  21. Creative Life says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:33 am

    #becauseimalady Two wardrobe staples I wear every day – a confident smile and sassy pants!

    Reply
  22. StephF says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:36 am

    I appreciate having nice clothing available in plus sizes – #becauseimalady

    Reply
  23. Terri says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:37 am

    #BecauseIamaLady I can be colorful and classy at the same time.

    Reply
  24. Beckie says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:58 am

    #becauseimalady I know that hose and proper foundation garments will make elevate an outfit to the next level.

    Reply
  25. Sharon says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:01 pm

    #becauseIamalady, I don't have to dress like a girl. I can dress for me, the occasion, and choose good fabrics, great colors, and wear my clothes for years, not a season.

    Reply
  26. Memee says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:02 pm

    #becauseimalady I smile at myself in the mirror, especially when I am wearing red lipstick

    Reply
  27. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:03 pm

    #becauseiamalady, I choose clothes that fit my actual body, not the body I used to have, and don't feel badly about it.

    Reply
  28. Kimm says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:07 pm

    #becauseimalady, I wear colorful clothes that make me happy and I do my best to be gracious when the world around me is not.

    Reply
  29. Virginia says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:22 pm

    #becauseimalady, I wear pearls with a tee shirt and jeans.

    BTW, reading through these is the best! We are all fantastic ladies!!

    Reply
    • Kendal says

      October 26, 2017 at 7:15 pm

      I second your words! What a great, inspiring group :)

      Reply
    • Camille Goldston says

      October 27, 2017 at 2:43 am

      Yes! I agree!

      Reply
  30. Cheryl K says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:26 pm

    #becauseimalady, I know when a shirt fits and when it is too tight.

    Reply
  31. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:38 pm

    #becauseimalady I take care of myself and help those around me. Lesley

    Reply
  32. Shrebee says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:42 pm

    Janice,
    #becauseimalady I won’t wear distressed jeans !

    Reply
  33. Ellen says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:42 pm

    #becauseimalady means that I dress that a lovely woman, not a trashy girl. It means dressing age appropriate,y, but never matronly. A well put together sense of style is just good manners.

    Reply
  34. Katherine says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:42 pm

    #becauseimalady I'm not afraid to call out sexist work dress codes and advocate for change when necessary.

    Reply
    • Throckmorzog says

      October 27, 2017 at 1:24 pm

      Amen to that! It’s a very ladylike quality to stand up for justice.
      Bravo, Katherine!

      Reply
  35. Trisha says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:43 pm

    I love that cleaning house snippet! #becauseimalady my outfits always have at least 3 pieces.

    Reply
  36. Amanda Johnsrud says

    October 26, 2017 at 7:46 am

    #becauseimalady I say bless your heart instead of fleepyflappyflufferfrappe

    Reply
  37. Megan says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:58 pm

    #becauseimalady I choose pieces that are flattering, functional & fun to wear.

    Reply
  38. LInda Orr says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:02 pm

    #becauseimalady I know that 'private parts' ARE private: they do not need to be shared with the world in order to be attractive.

    Reply
  39. Catherine says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:17 pm

    #becauseimalady I know that true beauty comes from the inside, so I try not to judge anyone by their size or shape.

    Reply
  40. Julie V says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:23 pm

    #becauseimalady, I dress for who I am now, with an eye toward who I'm working to become.

    Reply
  41. Lucinda says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:33 pm

    #becauseimalady, I try to make others comfortable, without making myself uncomfortable.

    Reply
  42. Katherine says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:37 pm

    #becauseimalady I'm streamlining my wardrobe to include only things I love.

    Reply
  43. pastan says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:38 pm

    #becauseimalady I know that quality trumps quantity, especially in clothes. Thanks, Janice, for all you do compiling and writing The Vivienne Files!

    Reply
  44. webb says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:39 pm

    #BecauseImaLady, i wish that skirts were a little longer! Fortunately there are many great slacks for those of us who don't like to show off our knees. Am trying to incorporate some tights, so that i feel comfortable in the shorter skirts. ps: Love your new Talbot cardigan It's just perfect!

    Reply
  45. Margie from Toronto says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:41 pm

    #becauseImalady I dress the woman that I am now and not the one that others expect me to be.

    Reply
  46. Throckmorzog says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:43 pm

    #becauseimalady I know what I want, I know what I need, and I know how to tell the difference.
    #becauseimalady I care for others.
    #becauseimalady I embrace adventure.

    Reply
  47. Throckmorzog says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:44 pm

    — as an aside, I was going to order that half-zip sweater today anyway for outdoor winter adventures! — : )

    Reply
  48. The Inspired Stitcher says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:50 pm

    #becauseImalady I can wear what I want when I want to and totally be myself doing it.

    Reply
  49. Scottie says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:52 pm

    #becauseimalady I get to wear what I want, when I want and where I want; I've earned it #becauseimalady. All y'all rock on this site!

    Reply
  50. Daria says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:54 pm

    #becauseimalady I always wear stockings with leather dress shoes and never barefoot.

    Reply
  51. Katie Rose says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:55 pm

    #becauseImalady I know that certain garments have a time and a place and choose accordingly (and sometimes that time is "never" and that place is "not on me!")

    (also, if I have posted twice I sincerely apologize and ask that it be disregarded, I waited and my first post never seemed to appear so I have tried again.)

    Reply
  52. Juhli says

    October 26, 2017 at 2:16 pm

    #becauseimalady I treat others with respect and kindness and try to treat myself the same way.

    Reply
  53. Becca says

    October 26, 2017 at 2:19 pm

    #becauseimalady I smile when I pass people. I compliment someone's choice in clothing/accessories if I see something I like—which is often! I remind myself not to judge. And I try to limit my wardrobe to six colors :P

    Reply
  54. Kandace says

    October 26, 2017 at 2:24 pm

    #becauseimalady I wear red lipstick.

    Reply
  55. Kaite C says

    October 26, 2017 at 2:33 pm

    #becauseimalady I am always kind and classy. And never use the word b**bs. ;-)

    Reply
  56. Meredith says

    October 26, 2017 at 2:47 pm

    I love everything about this wardrobe. The new Talbot's catalog is beautiful and I love the red lace skirt and bow pumps!

    Reply
  57. Christine Moon says

    October 26, 2017 at 9:49 am

    #becauseimalady I know appearing confident on the outside helps the inside to follow suit.

    Reply
  58. Deb from Vancouver says

    October 26, 2017 at 2:54 pm

    #becauseiamalady, I read The Viviennefiles everyday!

    Reply
  59. Christine Walker says

    October 26, 2017 at 9:55 am

    Ooh, some good comments already. I'm with you, I have mixed feelings about the word lady. It often has a condescending subtext, especially when used by a man speaking to a group of women he refers to as ladies, but the idea of "reclaiming" the word is intriguing.

    #becauseimalady I care about the world around me and make try to make ethical choices when purchasing clothing.

    Reply
  60. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 2:57 pm

    I show rather than tell others my strategy for fashion and life in general. It's all in the details but you must look and listen closely. I won't shout them #becauseimalady Deb in KY

    Reply
  61. Suzyn says

    October 26, 2017 at 2:57 pm

    #because I'm a lady, I've been raising my sons to be feminists.

    Hey, how do you like those uniqlo velvet pants? They're on sale for $14.90 today, and I have them and the matching top in my cart…

    Reply
    • Janice Riggs says

      October 26, 2017 at 3:38 pm

      I'm adoring them! And I don't adore clothes lightly – but I actually search for occasions to wear them. If you get them at that price, you'll feel like a gorgeous genius!
      hugs,
      Janice

      Reply
    • Suzyn says

      October 26, 2017 at 4:30 pm

      Alright, you sold me! I'll be in head-to-toe indigo velvet this holiday season! Hmmm – I'm thinking I need a hot pink silk sash around my waist to tie it all together…

      Oh, and #becauseImalady again, because my fingers typed *words* above! ;)

      Reply
  62. Lucy says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:02 pm

    #becauseiamalady I know that when you judge another, you don't define them, you define yourself.

    Reply
  63. Dylan says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:03 pm

    #becauseiamalady, I treat service people with respect.

    Reply
  64. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:07 pm

    #because I'm a lady, I seek style advice, not permission

    Reply
  65. sj says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:16 pm

    #becauseimalady I keep my underwear *under* my other clothes.

    Reply
  66. Brenda says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:20 pm

    I agree with what Talbots is suggesting,and I'll add that a lady is kind. #becasueimalady

    Reply
  67. Hoya says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:39 pm

    #becauseImalady I polish my shoes and my jewelry :-) But sometimes I have garden dirt under my nails, despite cleaning…..

    Reply
  68. I'm a Sophie Doodle Dog says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:44 pm

    #becauseimalady I love the clothes and shoes at Talbots.

    Reply
  69. reenswen says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:50 pm

    #becauseimalady I "dress up" most days just to show that I am a lady.

    Reply
  70. Lorrie says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:52 pm

    #becauseimalady I value quality over quantity.

    Reply
  71. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:52 pm

    #becauseimalady I wear my favorite purple shoes to work once a week
    ~Amy

    Reply
  72. Jennifer Pierce says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:53 pm

    #becauseimalady I love to watch trends and others' styles, but remain true to what makes me feel the most confident and comfortable. Talbots usually knows exactly what that takes!

    Reply
  73. cheryl :) says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:55 pm

    #becauseimalady I know that a smile is always our best accessory :)

    Reply
  74. Teri Brilhart says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:56 am

    #becauseimalady I dress to please myself and am not a slave to the latest fashion trends. I've loved Talbots since I was straight out of college!

    Reply
  75. Barb Witkowski says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:56 pm

    #becauseimalady I try to dress classically and comfortably, and Talbots helps me to do both! Kindness, however, makes us more attractive than what we wear!

    Reply
  76. CC says

    October 26, 2017 at 4:16 pm

    #becauseimalady I say please and thank you and treat others with kindness and teach my children to do the same. And I wear pink whenever I can! ?

    Reply
  77. Susan Scifres says

    October 26, 2017 at 4:30 pm

    #becauseimalady, I ALWAYS check the full length mirror before I leave the house to make sure nothing is showing that should not be showing.

    Reply
  78. Live a Colorful Life says

    October 26, 2017 at 4:42 pm

    #becauseimalady I practice good manners and have a pair of good black pants.

    Reply
  79. Valkirria says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:07 pm

    #becauseimalady kindness is never out of style
    Love what you´re doing with the travel packs but I can not wear black or grey or white
    Please include some warmer neutrals including pants.
    Saludos!
    Wendy

    Reply
  80. sewdiane says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:10 pm

    #becauseimalady, I like to follow the golden rule. Not because I'm better, but because I appreciate and respect those around me. Beauty comes from the inside…

    Reply
  81. Jennifer says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:11 pm

    #becauseimalady I think before I speak.

    Reply
  82. Val Greeley says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:13 pm

    #becauseimalady…I always try my best to be elegant, courteous, and have a sense of respect toward oneself and others.

    Reply
  83. Sisty says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:20 pm

    #becauseimalady, I always have lipstick on.

    Reply
  84. No Fear of Fashion says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:23 pm

    #becauseiamalady…. I love well-made quality clothes. It makes me feel confident.

    (Hah, this was fun.)

    Your capsules are very wise and I too adore a black and white combination. That has my first love. But… I’d love to inject some bright colours in your capsule. That is just me of course… always so loud haha.
    Greetje

    Reply
  85. Deana Sanders says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:27 pm

    #becauseimalady, I know that athleisure attire is not appropriate everywhere :)

    Reply
  86. Alison says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:30 pm

    #becauseimalady words matter and I don't say anything if I don't have anything nice to say!

    Reply
  87. Gail Finke says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:32 pm

    #becauseimalady I respect others and myself, including by the way I dress — classic, classy, ready for anything but never overdoing it.

    I love Talbots, some of my all-time favorite clothes come from that store.

    Reply
  88. vi says

    October 26, 2017 at 12:34 pm

    #becauseimalady i dress in marl or tweed almost all the time in fall and winter, my close second is plaids– and i love cardigans, long ones, 34 to 38'' long

    Reply
  89. SEMS Library Lady says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    I have your Talbot's travel wardrobe saved in my Pinterest board for my London trip next month. And #becauseimalady, I know that buying better quality clothes is more important than buying MORE clothes!

    Reply
  90. Sheri says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:47 pm

    #becauseimalady I know that my appearance matters and must be appropriate for the occasion and true to my style preferences…simple lines, timeless, and luxuriously comfortable :)

    Reply
  91. Ivy Bromius says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:54 pm

    #becauseimalady I do know the difference between boss and bossy — and make sure to live it so my colleagues learn too (Talbots is where I go to for my suits for when I also need to dress like a boss).

    Reply
  92. Sandi T says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:55 pm

    Good manners were bred into me as a girl, both at home and at school, and they have stayed with me over the years, as has Talbots! #becauseiamalady

    Reply
  93. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 6:05 pm

    #becauseimalday Being appropriately dressed is essential in my office. I feel better about myself and have more confidence if I have taken time with my appearance. I can always depend on Talbots to fine just want I need. Shopping is difficult because I petite and older (proud of it).

    Reply
  94. Terri says

    October 26, 2017 at 6:21 pm

    #becauseimalady I make sure to share my positive thoughts with others and use tact when someone asks for less positive feedback.

    Reply
  95. Tammy says

    October 26, 2017 at 6:22 pm

    #becauseIamalady, I like my reading glasses to match my clothes.

    Reply
  96. Courtney says

    October 26, 2017 at 6:28 pm

    #becauseimalady I get dressed (including jewelry!) every morning, even if my job for the day is staying home with my three young children.

    Reply
  97. Kelly Hughes says

    October 26, 2017 at 1:33 pm

    #becauseimalady, I wear clothes that boost my mood and make me feel like I can conquer the day ahead of me.

    Reply
  98. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 6:44 pm

    #becauseimalady, I’m glad that good taste isn’t dictated by others who initiate ‘must have’ fashion trends! Sharon, U.K.

    Reply
  99. Barbara says

    October 26, 2017 at 6:49 pm

    #becauseimalady I wear clothes that fit (properly) !!

    Reply
  100. Kathy Acosta says

    October 26, 2017 at 2:08 pm

    #becauseimalady I know that cleavage has no place in the office! I shudder to see some of these young women with their blouses cut way down low and "the girls" hanging out for all to see.

    Reply
  101. Ann Torrence says

    October 26, 2017 at 2:10 pm

    #becauseImalady I remember to speak only when it is kind, true and will help

    Reply
  102. Jeffiner Cox says

    October 26, 2017 at 2:39 pm

    #becauseimalady My wardrobe has to work as hard as I do.

    Reply
  103. Awesome in TN says

    October 26, 2017 at 7:54 pm

    #becauseimalady I treat my body with respect and appreciate the people I encounter each day. I enjoy each day that I live. Mary Lou

    Reply
  104. Charlene Burroughs says

    October 26, 2017 at 8:01 pm

    #becauseimalady I know classy never goes out of style.

    Reply
  105. Jamie says

    October 26, 2017 at 8:07 pm

    #becauseimalady, I'm always careful of others' feelings.

    Reply
  106. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 8:35 pm

    #becauseimalady I’m striving to be the best person I can be. Lori M

    Reply
  107. small town gal says

    October 26, 2017 at 8:51 pm

    #becauseimalady I want to wear clothing that shows I am the lady my mom always admonished me to be. Carol S.

    Reply
  108. Amy Olles says

    October 26, 2017 at 3:54 pm

    #becauseImalady I hold my head high

    Reply
  109. ErinMN says

    October 26, 2017 at 9:00 pm

    #becauseimalady, I struggled not punctuating the "I'm"! :-) Wear lots of Talbots, love their pants usually come in longs.

    Reply
  110. Sophia says

    October 26, 2017 at 9:21 pm

    #becauseiamalady I love shopping at Talbots!

    Reply
  111. Lilac says

    October 26, 2017 at 9:30 pm

    #becauseimalady I am always ready to accept a challenge, work hard to achieve results, and let the best shine through!

    Reply
  112. Denise says

    October 26, 2017 at 9:39 pm

    #becauseimalady I love your wardrobe and have used it as a springboard for my own.

    Reply
  113. Jackiedeeh says

    October 26, 2017 at 9:48 pm

    #becauseimalady I assume good intentions and treat others how I would like to be treated and also have Talbots as a go-to for their awesome petite choices.

    Reply
  114. LindaC says

    October 26, 2017 at 4:55 pm

    #becauseimalady I know that my clothes reflect my personality.

    Reply
  115. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 9:55 pm

    #becauseimalady…when they go low, I go high.
    Charlene H.

    Reply
  116. GrammaGrits says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:00 pm

    #becauseimalady, I seek to listen more than I talk and enjoy dressing nicely each day in spite of small town living!

    Reply
  117. Jeanette, Mistress of Longears says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:04 pm

    #becauseimalady who loves a store that always has petites!

    Reply
  118. Carolyn Balch says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:06 pm

    #becauseimalady I try to treat everyone with honor and dignity

    Reply
  119. Adeline Smyth says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:06 pm

    #becauseimalady To my mind a lady means a person who knows how to speak to and treat people in any walk of life in a courteous manner, knows how to dress appropriately for any given situation, and one who is always gracious to others (even if they don't want to be).

    Reply
  120. Anonymous says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:08 pm

    #becauseimalady, MY LEGS STAY TOGETHER: THEY ARE BFF'S

    Reply
  121. Laurie Marsh says

    October 26, 2017 at 5:21 pm

    #becauseimalady, I can use my chainsaw, splitter and wrapper for my firewood business and show up at my vendor with a sense of style and panache and no one believes I've been the one processing the wood!

    Reply
  122. Deborah Montgomery says

    October 26, 2017 at 10:31 pm

    #becauseimalady, I believe in being kind.

    Reply
  123. phxbne says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:01 pm

    #becauseimalady I try to be kind and caring, but speak my mind

    Reply
  124. Kiley Arnold says

    October 26, 2017 at 6:04 pm

    #becauseimalady I love to dress up, accessorize, and show my feminine side just as much as I love to be comfy and casual

    Reply
  125. BC Eicher says

    October 26, 2017 at 6:06 pm

    #becauseimalady I dress nicely even on casual days.

    Reply
  126. Brigid Johnson says

    October 26, 2017 at 6:22 pm

    #becauseimalady I never leave home with holey underwear.

    Reply
  127. ruralgirl says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:24 pm

    #becauseimalady I strive to treat ALL women as ladies

    Reply
  128. Dawn says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:28 pm

    #becauseimalady I remember what slips are and wear them. I also know that the view from behind when bending over isn't always as demure as the view from the front standing straight. I know to check both before leaving the house.

    Reply
  129. Wendy says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:29 pm

    #becauseimalady I like my clothes to fit well and Talbot's Pointe knit jackets are a great fit. I LOVE their selection of women's petites!

    Reply
  130. Christina says

    October 27, 2017 at 12:03 am

    #becauseimalady I drive fast and wear Talbot's cashmere because it's the best

    Reply
  131. Cathy says

    October 27, 2017 at 12:15 am

    Great post! #becauseimalady I know there are still some occasions that call for an outfit that does not include jeans.

    Reply
  132. The Second Half says

    October 27, 2017 at 12:23 am

    Love the post, and Talbots!) #becauseimalady I know it's never a bad thing to be the smartest person in the room!

    Reply
  133. Beth Malchus says

    October 26, 2017 at 7:28 pm

    #becauseimalady I always fall back to Talbot's dresses. I can get a piece here and a piece there and don't have to worry, next year I can still wear it. Classic clothes.

    Reply
  134. Candice Turner says

    October 26, 2017 at 7:29 pm

    #becauseimalady I am grateful and I try to show it.

    Reply
  135. Mary Cavaciuti says

    October 26, 2017 at 7:48 pm

    #becauseimalady I wear earrings every day

    Reply
  136. Kay Carter says

    October 26, 2017 at 8:19 pm

    #becauseimalady, I live my life with gratitude and accept my very wonky smile and partial facial paralysis caused by a (non-malignant) brain tumor. I still smile everyday! And I still wear a bit of lipstick!

    Reply
  137. drewalexmom says

    October 27, 2017 at 1:49 am

    #becauseimalady, I endeavor to meet ignorance with understanding.

    Reply
  138. chick of a certain age says

    October 27, 2017 at 1:53 am

    #becauseimaladyI will buy the best quality I can afford. #faveTalbotsBlazers!

    Reply
  139. Karen Juergens says

    October 27, 2017 at 2:23 am

    #becauseimalady, I have become a Talbot's aficionado, due to their consistent inspirations in fashion each season, and their annual Dress for Success clothing drives!

    [email protected]

    Reply
  140. Anne Scanapico says

    October 27, 2017 at 2:36 am

    #becauseimalady, my girls have grown up to be strong, loving, caring women. So proud of them. They respect others treat people equally.

    Reply
  141. Nancy/n.o.e says

    October 27, 2017 at 3:50 am

    #becauseImalady I wear a slip always with a skirt or dress so that the garment looks attractive and not distracting. – nancyo

    ps, I shouldn't be surprised that other commenters above share my love of slips, #becausetheyreladies too!

    Reply
  142. Anonymous says

    October 27, 2017 at 3:59 am

    #becauseimalady, I love a classy dress.

    Reply
  143. Abigail says

    October 27, 2017 at 4:06 am

    #becauseimalady I dress the body I have today with well-fitting and coordinating clothing, use good posture, and try to feel good about myself even if I’m still wearing a clunky sports shoe following foot surgery.

    Reply
  144. Jody says

    October 27, 2017 at 4:30 am

    #becauseimalady I love the cashmere at Talbots. The water weave wraps are my favorite

    Reply
  145. bkvl says

    October 26, 2017 at 11:32 pm

    #becauseimalady I want to unclutter my life with too many choices so I can be a blessing to others. Love your fashion advice Janice!

    Reply
    • Camille Goldston says

      October 27, 2017 at 2:52 am

      This is great!! More freedom comes with fewer choices! And thank you, Janice, for helping me focus my wardrobe (especially for travel since I travel a lot!) so I can concentrate on what matters—the people around me.

      Reply
  146. Tess Ware says

    October 27, 2017 at 12:07 am

    #becauseimalady [of a certain age!], I now know to buy my shoes before I buy my outfit at Talbots, my favorite store.

    Reply
  147. Anonymous says

    October 27, 2017 at 5:17 am

    #Iamalady-dressing well is part of having good manners

    Reply
  148. Mary Gonzales says

    October 27, 2017 at 12:38 am

    #becauseimalady I want to treat others with dignity and respect.

    Reply
  149. Donna Weaver says

    October 27, 2017 at 2:22 am

    #becauseimalady, I know I'm like a fine wine, I get better with age. I love classic, well made clothes that are age appropriate and not just todays trend.i still think wearing hose and slips or camisoles should be a requirement. The make your clothes fit and look better. Also must have my pearls. Love Talbot's for their style and customer service. Love your blog S well.

    Reply
  150. Camille Goldston says

    October 27, 2017 at 2:40 am

    #becauseimalady I can be feminine AND accomplished.

    Reply
  151. jean says

    October 27, 2017 at 2:45 am

    I wear the pants. #becauseiamalady

    Reply
  152. Texas from the north says

    October 27, 2017 at 8:02 am

    #becauseimalady although I have a career in a predominantly men's field, I am myself when I'm stylish, graceful and kind.

    Reply
  153. Zaidie Brown says

    October 27, 2017 at 9:35 am

    #becauseimalady I own a castle, prefer to buy ethical clothes and fairtrade items to give others a decent chance at life and I don't judge people on their clothing choices, despite not choosing athleisure or rips for myself.

    Reply
  154. Diana says

    October 27, 2017 at 10:12 am

    #becauseimalady I know comfort and style are not mutually exclusive.

    Reply
  155. isisonearth says

    October 27, 2017 at 11:10 am

    #becauseimalady I bought a quality handbag that will stand the test of time while still showing a lot of personality.

    Reply
  156. Maria in PA says

    October 27, 2017 at 11:52 am

    #becauseimalady I define and embrace my own versions of strong and sexy.

    I rediscovered Talbots last year when rebuilding a wardrobe after losing weight. After feeling dismissed in another store, I walked in and was greeted by a most helpful sales associate. She spent hours helping me find the proper new sizes, providing a critical eye, and putting together basic pieces to give me the most bang for my buck.

    I recently added in the Paris cardigan. It caught my eye in the catalog, and your post convinced me of its versatility. Thank you, Janice!

    Reply
  157. KPD says

    October 27, 2017 at 12:28 pm

    #becauseiamalady I help people whenever I can without letting anyone know. I love the Ann Lamott quote that earth is forgiveness school and we are all just walking each other home. Also, I LOVE Talbots, the have petites that are the right shape for me. Been wearing them for the past 40 years to teach, still wearing them retired.

    Reply
  158. Beth B says

    October 27, 2017 at 12:39 pm

    #becauseiamalady I know a little mystery is a good thing!

    Reply
  159. littlebear says

    October 27, 2017 at 2:04 pm

    #becauseimalady I can. I will. And I do!

    PS – First time commenting, but I treat myself to your blog every day! Thanks so much for what you do!

    Reply
  160. Holly Hiatt says

    October 27, 2017 at 2:50 pm

    #becauseimalady I can enjoy Disney and War and Peace all in the same night of at home entertainment with great running dialog.

    Reply
  161. Jane says

    October 27, 2017 at 3:32 pm

    Oh Janice, you took mine! (leggings as pants) Everyone posting is so clever! Here's mine –

    #becauseimalady I believe pre-distressed is preposterous!

    Reply
  162. Anonymous says

    October 27, 2017 at 3:35 pm

    #becauseimalady I dress comfortably, age appropriately and professionally with an eye towards quality and classic attire and dressing for who I am.

    Reply
  163. Josephine Faith Gibbs says

    October 27, 2017 at 3:51 pm

    #becauseimalady I spend hours at the thrift store helping my young adult daughter put together an outfit. We sort through rack after rack for possibilities and then I give feedback as she tries things on, pointing out why some things don't play nicely together, how cheap garments and quality garments hang differently, what colors and lines work best on her, and encouraging her toward appropriateness, all while not imposing my style on her.

    Reply
  164. Nancy Flaherty says

    October 27, 2017 at 11:07 am

    #becauseimalady I strive to do my best in whatever I face each day and consciously look for the best in others as well.

    Reply
  165. Cee Pluse says

    October 27, 2017 at 11:14 am

    #becauseiamalady I embrace diversity in others rather than demand conformity… and that of course includes apparel preferences! I know my casual style is not for everyone, just as the looks others choose are not necessarily for me, but my feeling is that if everyone did everything the same way we would live in a very boring and stagnant world, and stagnation is the antithesis of progress. I choose progress every time. Thank you for the giveaway opportunity, Janice!

    Reply
  166. MariaLaura says

    October 27, 2017 at 4:40 pm

    #becauseiamalady I packed light for a six day trip to London and Aarhus. All garments were either black or white with a silk scarf used to add some color punch. I looked and felt like a million bucks and was ready for all occasions, which included sightseeing, semi-formal dinners and a performance of The Magic Flute at the Royal Opera in London! Never forget to pack a LBD!

    Reply
  167. Anne says

    October 27, 2017 at 4:45 pm

    #becauseimalady I take time to look my best whether I'm going out or just working at the home office all day

    Reply
  168. Kirsti says

    October 27, 2017 at 5:15 pm

    #becauseimalady I greet everyone I meet with a smile!

    I love that quarter zip fair isle pullover! Good choices Janice!

    Reply
  169. Leigh Taylor Ellis says

    October 27, 2017 at 5:16 pm

    #becauseimalady I know the vital corollary to "Treat others as you want to be treated," is "Treat yourself as you would have others treat you."

    Reply
  170. kris says

    October 27, 2017 at 5:38 pm

    #becauseimalady I want to dress appropriately for special occasions both celebratory and sad. (Weddings and funerals come to mind.) For those special occasions, I often find myself wearing a classic Talbots coat purchased some 25 or 30 years ago. (It may well be the oldest item in my wardrobe.)

    Reply
  171. Mrs. Manic says

    October 27, 2017 at 6:18 pm

    #becauseimalady I don't always say out loud what's on my mind. As Sun Tzu said, victorious warriors win first and then go to war.

    Reply
    • Kelly says

      October 27, 2017 at 9:09 pm

      Ooh, I like that! I've been reading Sun Tzu lately — so much wisdom for all of life in his writings.

      Reply
  172. Gail says

    October 27, 2017 at 6:23 pm

    #becauseimalady I salute you, Janice, for the great eye and the prodigious energy, soul, and vision that you bring to this blog. I love the heartfelt sentiments expressed by your many, many appreciative readers and I marvel at the way you keep on changing our lives one mindful closet at a time.

    Reply
  173. tracey meade says

    October 27, 2017 at 7:16 pm

    #becauseimalady I wear a smile, great shoes,a wonderful handbag and a beautiful scarf!

    Reply
  174. La Belle Demimondaine says

    October 27, 2017 at 7:20 pm

    #becauseimalady sometimes I dress to please myself, and sometimes I dress to do homage to those around me, and sometimes I manage to do both.

    Reply
  175. Ann Hicks says

    October 27, 2017 at 2:52 pm

    #becauseimalady I don't judge folks by their shape or size.

    Reply
  176. Molly says

    October 27, 2017 at 7:55 pm

    #becauseimalady I treat others with respect. :)

    Reply
  177. Amy says

    October 27, 2017 at 9:06 pm

    #becauseimalady I know how to dress appropriately for various situations. I also know that leggings are not pants!

    Reply
  178. Kelly says

    October 27, 2017 at 9:07 pm

    #becauseimalady I correct my children's grammar, but not my friends'.

    I've never had a problem with the word lady. Where I'm from, "lady" implies a strength, dignity, and magnanimity that I've always aspired to.

    Reply
  179. Suzi says

    October 27, 2017 at 9:22 pm

    #becauseimalady I know that a compliment can make someone’s entire day…and sometimes dresses really do need a slip underneath!

    Reply
  180. Debra says

    October 27, 2017 at 9:28 pm

    #becaseimalady…I know that a scarf or necklace can complete my outfit.

    Reply
  181. Karen S. says

    October 27, 2017 at 4:34 pm

    #becauseimalady I try to treat others with kindness :) (even myself!).

    Reply
  182. flasthrnbel says

    October 27, 2017 at 9:50 pm

    #becauseimalady….I have given myself permission to wear only what is comfortable, stylish, fits my figure well, and is the best quality I can afford.

    Reply
  183. ann schutt says

    October 27, 2017 at 6:46 pm

    #becauseimalady my straps do not show! Thank you Janice – I'm enjoying and learning from you.

    Reply
  184. Inese says

    October 28, 2017 at 2:33 am

    #becauseimalady I can never have too many cardigans and scarfs.

    Reply
  185. Inese says

    October 28, 2017 at 2:34 am

    #becauseimalady I can never have too many cardigans and scarfs.

    Reply
  186. Lynne says

    October 28, 2017 at 3:20 am

    #becauseimalady Being a lady is keeping your personal business private, being gracious and dressing modestly but still pulled together.

    Reply
  187. Jennifer says

    October 28, 2017 at 4:33 am

    #because I'm a lady I know HOW to wear leggings as pants ;)

    Reply
  188. Becky Holloway says

    October 28, 2017 at 2:16 am

    #becauseimalady I want my casual weekend wear to be as nice and stylish as my working wardrobe.

    Reply
  189. Lynn Johnson says

    October 28, 2017 at 4:16 am

    #becauseimalady I practice good manners while standing up for myself.

    Reply
  190. Lynn Johnson says

    October 28, 2017 at 4:18 am

    #becauseimalady I practice good manners while standing up for myself.

    Reply
  191. rustygirl14 says

    October 28, 2017 at 11:36 am

    #becauseimalady I make sure my students (and my friends!) know that what matters to me is their personalities, not their appearances.

    Reply
  192. Tori Grant says

    October 28, 2017 at 11:48 am

    #becauseiamalday I know my own thoughts and respect other peoples opinions, speaking truth with kindness.

    Reply
  193. Jennifer says

    October 28, 2017 at 12:19 pm

    #becauseimalady I know that sticking to my own standards and my own style is always appropriate.

    Reply
  194. Jennifer says

    October 28, 2017 at 12:22 pm

    #becauseimalady I know that sticking to my own standards and my own style is always appropriate.

    Sorry if I double-posted.

    Also, I totally agree with Inese!

    Reply
  195. A Book-Loving Traveler says

    October 28, 2017 at 8:50 pm

    #becauseimalady I mind my manners and say “Please” and “Thank you”.

    Reply
  196. Taylor2010 says

    October 29, 2017 at 2:31 am

    #becauseimalady I work and play hard.

    Reply
  197. Marie says

    October 29, 2017 at 1:24 pm

    #becauseimalady I show love to everyone. Everyone!

    Reply
  198. Elaine Robeck says

    October 29, 2017 at 2:34 pm

    #becauseimalady I try to think the best of people.

    Reply
  199. Rusthawk says

    October 29, 2017 at 3:12 pm

    #becauseimalady i value strength and kindness.

    Reply
  200. Susan Christy says

    October 29, 2017 at 8:38 pm

    #becauseimalady, I don't swear (outloud).

    Reply
  201. elle says

    October 29, 2017 at 9:54 pm

    #becauseimalady I dress/act like a lady

    Reply
  202. AndreaB says

    October 29, 2017 at 10:12 pm

    #becauseimalady I dress so that I feel right for the time/place and that others feel comfortable, too.

    Reply
  203. Melanie Messing says

    October 30, 2017 at 6:01 pm

    #becauseimalady I know that you can never have too many shoes!

    Reply
  204. Sarah S. says

    October 30, 2017 at 6:05 pm

    #becauseimalady I wear the clothes that make me feel good and put together and don't worry so much about looking trendy.

    Reply
  205. Unknown says

    November 4, 2017 at 1:18 am

    #becauseImALady reminds me of The Aristocats, such sass

    Reply
  206. Caroline Buster-Brown says

    November 9, 2017 at 10:59 am

    #becauseimalady I know Chanel from jeans & boots days, but if hard pressed I could easily pull together both for a modern day stunner.

    Reply

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