It’s tempting to try to rationalize purchases, even though you try something on and it’s not quite perfect. “This will look better with the right tights…” is something that I said to Belovedest just a couple of days ago. And then I realized that I was just making excuses…
Quote from “I’ll Drink to That” by Betty Halbreich.
I went through this yesterday, finding my favorite designer's slacks at rock bottom pricing. After trying them on and finding them lacking-fit, fabric, and style wrong for me, I started to justifying their purchase. Then my little "Vivienne" started to wake me up. The thing that finally did it was remembering I was worth saving for one pair of "perfect" fit, style and fabric slacks that would work with every componant in my wardrobe and these slacks-two pair- were standing in the way. Thanks to your guidance I get compliments all the time now.
The thrift shops are happy with my justifications.
I love that you are quoting Betty Halbreich. I have read both her books and watched some of the you tube interviews. She is great, I would love to shop with her, although it might lo be a bit scary.
Deb from Vancouver
Dear Janice,
I have been away from the internet these past few days. A very happy (belated) New Year! Annie
Ah, we're in sync Janice. Think you'll enjoy the post I have lined up for tomorrow.
Good advice that I will do well to remember! Mary
Good advice. I'm trying to only buy things that I really love at first sight.
Sometimes I try things on and instantly say "Yes". Other times, instantly "No". Other times I think "this is ok" and then I have to ask myself "But do I love it?" The answer is almost always "No," so back on the rack it goes. I have learned that if I have to think it over that long and justify it that much, then it just isn't the right thing for me.
Good advice, shared. Thank you Anne
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How true – I need to remember this LOL!!